What to do if they pull away?

When you’re in a relationship it can be hard to know what to do when you all of sudden get radio silence.

Things have been going great and then all of a sudden out of the blue…nothing.

The natural response is to freak out and call up and demand to know what’s going on. Ask yourself, has this worked for you in the past? Sometimes people need a break to come to terms with the fact that they’re in a relationship. Sometimes in the early stages of dating they are dating more than one person and they choose someone over you. That’s why they call it dating and not marriage. You’re testing the waters. As a matchmaker people sometimes try to place blame the on us. Sadly even I can’t prevent a broken heart.

THIS IS THE HARD PART

So how to you find out what the deal is without ruining everything by pushing too soon. You’ve got to sit on your hands. Don’t do anything. You have a very good chance of salvaging it and moving forward if it’s just simple stage fright which it often is. By disappearing while they have their time you are appearing confident. You make them wonder if you also have other things on the go. Familiarity breeds contempt so make yourself unavailable. Don’t call, text or appear in any way. If they really like you they will reappear pretty quickly-usually within the week. At Misty River Introductions we provide professional matchmaking services that have been proven for singles.