After so many failed attempts at dating, how do you keep your heart in the game

One of the things that makes dating so hard these days is that we often have first-date fatigue caused by the rigours of online dating.

Hiring a matchmaker can make it a more productive experience with less awkward dates that feel more like work than fun and more dates with people that are much closer to what you’re really looking for.

No matter how you find love and relationships, chemistry is essential. Without that elusive magic it’s not worth going forward. Keep in mind chemistry doesn’t necessarily just happen the first time your eyes lock. It can build over time as you get to know someone.

We have all had that experience of working with someone who we barely notice through the first number of encounters only to eventually realize that they become attractive and interesting. Initial looks can be deceiving, while a sense of humour, confidence, and intelligence can really change the way you look at someone.

I will often tell my clients who are using a matchmaker for the first time to look at the experience like a job. It will however stop being a job once you find that chemistry.