Thanks to technology, dating has literally turned into a game exploding with emoticons, selfies, and exclamation points. Relationships today are consumed with flirty text messages and awkward emails – where did face-to-face interaction even go? But let’s be honest…if you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re not interested in playing games. Right?
Remember the old fashioned way of meeting someone? And the time and effort you had to actually invest in dating?
There were awkward formal introductions, sweet smiles across the table, and actual conversations to learn about one another – rather than just an impersonal Google or Facebook search. As daunting as it may seem, there’s still a certain thrill to the magical simplicity of real dating.
Simple, real-life connections is what Misty River Introductions is all about!
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Many people ask me which is the most interesting city to be a matchmaker in? Montreal is my most interesting and challenging city. As a matchmaker with 20 years experience and 15 years experience in Montreal I have to say that this is the city with the mostly ethnically, religiously and professionally diverse client base that I handle. Add to these factors that single people in Montreal are beautifully dressed, have sophisticated palates when it comes to food and wine and enjoy a cultural and arts scene that is unprecedented. This makes for a demographic of singles that yearn for a high end, quality matchmaking. When I interview prospective clients I am always delighted and surprised to find unique, interesting individuals who have lived exciting lives filled with travel and adventure.
As a Dating coach and Professional matchmaker people often worry that the process seems artificial and that the magic and chemistry will be missing. This is a myth. Not the importance of chemistry, just the idea that you can predict how and when it will happen. Sure we’ve all had the experience of meeting someone and recognizing how good looking they are and that they “check all your must have boxes”. Yet you feel nothing. No Magic. No zing. Conversely most of us had that experience of working with someone and not even noticing them initially and then over time finding them incredibly attractive.
Such is the dilemma of modern dating. When many modern relationships in Montreal start with blind dates how do you know if the chemistry will build or what if you do have great chemistry but nothing in common. This where a dating coach and professional matchmaker can help you make sense of those emotions and help you make good decisions so you can have a great outcome and a great relationship.
As a professional matchmaker I am often asked this question by people who are new to the singles scene. Sadly after wasting years on bad dates the answer is clear. When picking a life partner life stage is everything when it comes to professional matchmaking. When you have two kids that are school age you often don’t want to meet people who still yearning to have more. When you are at the zenith of your career you don’t want to marry someone who is still “finding themselves”. When you’re retired and looking forward to adventure and travel you don’t want to meet someone who still has years in the workforce. Likewise, when you have a certain socioeconomic status that you’re worked hard to achieve do you want to date someone who you’re going to have to support. Do you want to meet a smoker when you run marathons and keep vegan? Do you want to meet someone with three cats when you are allergic and have costly furnishings? Hiring a professional matchmaking agency can “cut to the chase”. Time is always at a premium in this busy world we live in. Sit back, enjoy the things in life that already give you pleasure and let us do the looking.